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Death and dying: how different cultures deal with grief and mourning

the gist

Grief has the same biological basis everywhere, with similar brain responses and stress hormones, but cultures differ in how it is expressed and for how long. In Hindu families in India, relatives support the household through an elaborate 13-day ritual, and in Tibet the Buddhist mourning period lasts 49 days. In Bali, tearfulness is discouraged because crying too long is believed to burden the dead person's soul. The Māori tangihanga is a multi-stage rite that sends the spirit on, gathers family to reminisce and ends with the unveiling of a headstone. Western psychology now sees grief as an ongoing adaptation to loss rather than moving on.

so what

Seeing how different societies organise mourning shows that collective support and rituals are one of the oldest ways people carry loss together. It also challenges the idea that the individual-focused approach common in the West is the only healthy one.

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background

Grief is the response to the loss of something deemed important, in particular the death of a person or animal to which a bond or affection was formed. Although conventionally focused on the emotional response to loss, grief also has physical, cognitive, behavioral, social, cultural, spiritual, political and philosophical dimensions. While the terms are often used interchangeably, bereavement refers to the state of loss, while grief is the reaction to that loss.

The grief associated with death is familiar to most people, but individuals grieve in connection with a variety of losses throughout their lives, such as unemployment, ill health or the end of a relationship. Loss can be categorized as either physical or abstract; physical loss is related to something that the individual can touch or measure, such as losing a spouse through death, while other types of loss are more abstract, possibly relating to aspects of a person's social interactions.

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